All us single ladies get them at some point and time when we’re just longing for a relationship, so tired of those lonely nights we’ll call the bum down the street to tied us over for the night and accept that date from the weirdo in the office. Now, before you do anything a little rash let me give you some words of wisdom, good things comes to those who wait. Hard words to swallow especially when you look to left and to your right and the only thing you see are to happy couples. So please stop texting and let me show you that life in the single lane can be just as happy as being in a lane for two!
1. Enjoy you
When you’re in a relationship you have to commonly think about us.What are we going to do today? What do we need? Are we going to go out? But when you’re single it’s all about you honey, if your in the mood for a crappy movie you can go a head and watch it with out any complaints from the peanut gallery. When you want to go out on a random vacation or splurge on a pair of shoes you really want there is no worry on how this is going to fit in to our budget. Its all about you when you’re single and no one else and lets be honest we can all use a little more me time in our schedules.
2. Me Time
Speaking of me time, take some of that time and do something you’ve always wanted to do.For instance that cooking class you wanted to take for the longest well here’s your chance, you’ve got the time and the funds! If classes aren’t you’re think have a you day or night where you spend the whole day pampering yourself. Take yourself out to dinner or a relaxing day at the spa its all about what you wanted to do this day make it a personal holiday.
3. Travel!!
You’re young hot and sexy why only keep it to your city? Go out and explore the world, have a road trip and live it up in Vegas or head down to the clear waters of Florida and walk the beach in your sexy bikini! See the world while you still can and live it up!
4. Girls night out(or in)
When was the last time you and your friends seriously hung out? Life gets busy with work and relationships but know that you’re taking a break now is the perfect time to rekindle some off those lost friendships! Call up all your single girls and live it up, pull out your freak’em dress and your highest heels and strut down the blvd like a model. Oh and this isn’t just a night for your girls to make up for lost time, since you’re looking so good why not flirt with the cutie over there that’s giving you the eyes? You’re single why not mingle? Go rack up some numbers and build up your fan base with some hotties from the club!
This is your time to live your life with no restraints or responsibilities of being in a relationship! So do like the girls of Sex and the City and live life fabulously you only got one life, why live it depending on someone else to complete you? Complete your self, indulge in the goddess that is you and embrace the fact that it’s OK to be single. Certainly don’t rush in to finding love when love is ready it’ll come find you! I can’t tell you how many horrible relationships I’ve had when I was running around trying to find a man, or how many wonderful relationships I’ve found when I wasn’t even looking. Love is a waiting game and since you’re waiting why not live a little? Live irresponsibly 🙂
What do you think?